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The High Price of Parenting: Infant Care Outpaces Rent in 11 Metros

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Raising a child isn’t cheap. In fact, the annual costs associated with raising a small child are $29,419.

For those with young kids, child care can be a major expense. According to LendingTree research, the average monthly cost of infant care across the 100 largest U.S. metros is 25.3% lower than the average monthly cost of rent for a two-bedroom unit, while caring for an infant and a 4-year-old costs 31.5% more than rent.

Here’s a look at where those costs are highest and lowest.

Key findings

  • Across the 100 largest U.S. metros, the average monthly cost of full-time center-based infant care is $1,282 — 25.3% less than the average monthly cost of $1,716 to rent a two-bedroom unit. However, the cost of infant care exceeds the cost of rent in 11 metros.
  • Infant care costs in Springfield, Mass., are 15.1% higher than rent. While average monthly infant care there costs $1,996, the average rent for a two-bedroom is $1,734. Milwaukee (14.8%) and Wichita, Kan. (14.3%), have the next largest gaps. 
  • For families with two kids, child care costs exceed rent in 85 of the 100 metros analyzed. That’s looking at care costs for an infant and a 4-year-old and rent for a two-bedroom unit. The biggest disparities are in Omaha, Neb. (111.3%), Milwaukee (110.9%) and Buffalo, N.Y. (105.6%). 
  • Caring for two children is significantly cheaper than rent in California and Florida metros. In San Jose, Calif., child care costs 38.4% less than rent. San Francisco (37.6%) and San Diego (29.4%) follow. In total, six of the 10 metros where this is most common are in California, while the remaining four are in Florida. 

Child care rivals rent in 100 largest metros

The average monthly cost of full-time center-based infant care across the 100 largest metros is $1,282. Meanwhile, the average monthly cost to rent a two-bedroom unit across the same 100 metros is $1,716. 

That means that infant child care costs are 25.3% less than rent. 

‘Most families don’t have another choice’

Matt Schulz — LendingTree chief consumer finance analyst and author of “Ask Questions, Save Money, Make More: How to Take Control of Your Financial Life” — says these average costs are incredibly significant for families.

“Spending almost $1,300 a month on child care is a massive burden for parents, but most families don’t have another choice,” he says. “They can’t stay home. They don’t have family or friends they can rely on for child care. They have no other option but to put up a ton of money each month for child care. It makes an already difficult financial situation that much more challenging.”

When we conducted this study last year, the average monthly cost of child care was $1,218 — 22.2% lower than the average monthly rent of $1,566. While child care costs haven’t changed much in that period, rent has increased slightly. 

However, child care costs have been rising for some time. According to Child Care Aware of America, the average cost of child care rose 13.3% between 2023 and 2024, from $11,582 per child to $13,128. That’s up an even more significant 35.5% from 2019.

Child care costs by year (nationally).

Worth noting, though: In this year’s study, we found that infant care costs exceed rent in 11 metros. We’ll get into that below. 

Child care for infant more expensive than rent in these metros

By metro, infant care costs in Springfield, Mass., exceed rent the most. While average monthly infant care there costs $1,996, the average rent for a two-bedroom is $1,734 — meaning child care is 15.1% higher than rent. 

Springfield ranked first in last year’s study, too, with child care being a more significant 32.3% higher than rent — though average child care ($1,819) and rent ($1,375) were both cheaper than this year. 

Milwaukee (14.8%) ranks next, rising from No. 18 in last year’s study. Here, child care costs $1,536, while rent costs $1,338. Wichita, Kan. (14.3%), ranks third for the second year in a row, with child care costing $1,256 and rent costing $1,099.

The metros where infant care costs the most compared to rent are Springfield, MA; Milwaukee, WI; and Wichita, KS.

Schulz says those costs can be significant for parents in these metros, but it’s better to focus on rent rather than child care.

“High child care costs may require some sacrifice, but it’s important to remember that day care isn’t a forever expense,” he says, “With that in mind, it might make sense to focus on keeping housing costs down during that period in which you’re paying for child care regularly.” 

Conversely, infant care costs are 53.2% lower than rent in Miami — the lowest by metro. Here, child care costs $1,139, while rent for a two-bedroom apartment costs a whopping $2,436. San Jose, Calif. (53.1%), San Francisco (52.5%) and Austin, Texas (50.2%), are the only other metros where child care costs are at least 50% less than rent. 

Full rankings: Metros where infant care costs most/least compared to rent

RankMetroAvg. monthly infant care costAvg. monthly 2-bedroom rent% difference$ difference
1Springfield, MA$1,996$1,73415.1%$262
2Milwaukee, WI$1,536$1,33814.8%$198
3Wichita, KS$1,256$1,09914.3%$157
4Omaha, NE$1,548$1,36813.2%$180
5Baltimore, MD$2,084$1,85712.2%$227
6Buffalo, NY$1,494$1,34311.2%$151
7Syracuse, NY$1,506$1,3928.2%$114
7Spokane, WA$1,656$1,5318.2%$125
9Minneapolis, MN$1,807$1,7095.7%$98
10Toledo, OH$1,130$1,0765.0%$54
11Worcester, MA$2,069$2,0560.6%$13
12Bakersfield, CA$1,479$1,483-0.3%-$4
13St. Louis, MO$1,205$1,218-1.1%-$13
14Rochester, NY$1,546$1,573-1.7%-$27
15Colorado Springs, CO$1,680$1,735-3.2%-$55
16Chicago, IL$1,712$1,781-3.9%-$69
17Indianapolis, IN$1,409$1,473-4.3%-$64
18Washington, DC$2,140$2,253-5.0%-$113
19Scranton, PA$1,151$1,252-8.1%-$101
20Akron, OH$1,161$1,268-8.4%-$107
21Cleveland, OH$1,164$1,279-9.0%-$115
22Madison, WI$1,540$1,694-9.1%-$154
23Albany, NY$1,544$1,702-9.3%-$158
23Dayton, OH$1,154$1,273-9.3%-$119
25Fresno, CA$1,505$1,664-9.6%-$159
26Pittsburgh, PA$1,169$1,299-10.0%-$130
27Stockton, CA$1,554$1,742-10.8%-$188
28Tucson, AZ$1,241$1,402-11.5%-$161
29Poughkeepsie, NY$1,737$1,979-12.2%-$242
30Denver, CO$1,819$2,089-12.9%-$270
31Cincinnati, OH$1,177$1,353-13.0%-$176
32Louisville, KY$1,103$1,272-13.3%-$169
33Portland, OR$1,654$1,922-13.9%-$268
34Kansas City, MO$1,167$1,358-14.1%-$191
35Memphis, TN$1,093$1,274-14.2%-$181
36Des Moines, IA$1,104$1,318-16.2%-$214
37Detroit, MI$1,167$1,411-17.3%-$244
37Columbus, OH$1,182$1,430-17.3%-$248
39Richmond, VA$1,361$1,655-17.8%-$294
40Hartford, CT$1,524$1,865-18.3%-$341
41Winston-Salem, NC$1,001$1,232-18.8%-$231
42Providence, RI$1,401$1,729-19.0%-$328
43Provo, UT$1,180$1,460-19.2%-$280
44Harrisburg, PA$1,195$1,493-20.0%-$298
45Albuquerque, NM$1,159$1,464-20.8%-$305
46Virginia Beach, VA$1,353$1,713-21.0%-$360
47New Haven, CT$1,538$1,969-21.9%-$431
48Honolulu, HI$2,040$2,642-22.8%-$602
49Boston, MA$2,263$2,941-23.1%-$678
50Greensboro, NC$1,015$1,330-23.7%-$315
50McAllen, TX$809$1,060-23.7%-$251
52Phoenix, AZ$1,389$1,839-24.5%-$450
53Tulsa, OK$913$1,217-25.0%-$304
54Allentown, PA$1,219$1,634-25.4%-$415
54Knoxville, TN$1,097$1,471-25.4%-$374
54Oklahoma City, OK$928$1,244-25.4%-$316
57Seattle, WA$1,852$2,501-25.9%-$649
58Grand Rapids, MI$1,133$1,531-26.0%-$398
59Ogden, UT$1,182$1,614-26.8%-$432
60Baton Rouge, LA$865$1,204-28.2%-$339
61El Paso, TX$853$1,191-28.4%-$338
62Riverside, CA$1,562$2,201-29.0%-$639
63Philadelphia, PA$1,282$1,810-29.2%-$528
64Sacramento, CA$1,576$2,255-30.1%-$679
65Augusta, GA$868$1,261-31.2%-$393
66Little Rock, AR$788$1,147-31.3%-$359
67Salt Lake City, UT$1,197$1,747-31.5%-$550
68Columbia, SC$871$1,276-31.7%-$405
69Nashville, TN$1,152$1,730-33.4%-$578
70Lakeland, FL$991$1,497-33.8%-$506
71New Orleans, LA$868$1,331-34.8%-$463
72Greenville, SC$869$1,339-35.1%-$470
73Los Angeles, CA$1,671$2,601-35.8%-$930
74Bridgeport, CT$1,583$2,511-37.0%-$928
74Charlotte, NC$1,062$1,686-37.0%-$624
76San Antonio, TX$886$1,426-37.9%-$540
77Durham, NC$1,058$1,711-38.2%-$653
78Raleigh, NC$1,073$1,750-38.7%-$677
79New York, NY$1,780$2,910-38.8%-$1,130
80Las Vegas, NV$1,060$1,735-38.9%-$675
81Oxnard, CA$1,642$2,693-39.0%-$1,051
82Jacksonville, FL$1,010$1,658-39.1%-$648
83Houston, TX$947$1,573-39.8%-$626
84Palm Bay, FL$1,027$1,709-39.9%-$682
85Birmingham, AL$752$1,266-40.6%-$514
86Deltona, FL$1,005$1,700-40.9%-$695
87Jackson, MS$709$1,288-45.0%-$579
88Boise, ID$903$1,655-45.4%-$752
89North Port, FL$1,055$1,958-46.1%-$903
90San Diego, CA$1,613$3,001-46.3%-$1,388
91Tampa, FL$1,053$1,977-46.7%-$924
92Cape Coral, FL$1,044$1,961-46.8%-$917
93Atlanta, GA$963$1,820-47.1%-$857
94Charleston, SC$943$1,787-47.2%-$844
95Orlando, FL$1,029$1,972-47.8%-$943
96Dallas, TX$977$1,931-49.4%-$954
97Austin, TX$923$1,852-50.2%-$929
98San Francisco, CA$1,711$3,604-52.5%-$1,893
99San Jose, CA$1,633$3,483-53.1%-$1,850
100Miami, FL$1,139$2,436-53.2%-$1,297
Source: LendingTree analysis of Child Care Aware of America and U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development (HUD) data. 

Child care for 2 kids exceeds monthly rent in most metros

Understandably, the cost of child care for an infant and a 4-year-old exceeds monthly rent in significantly more metros — 85 of the 100 analyzed. For five, child care costs are at least twice the average rent. 

Omaha, Neb., is first, with child care for an infant and a 4-year-old costing $2,891. Compared to the $1,368 monthly rent, child care costs 111.3% more. Milwaukee (110.9%) and Buffalo, N.Y. (105.6%), are also at the top.

The metros where infant/4-year-old care costs the most compared to rent are Omaha, NE; Milwaukee, WI; and Buffalo, NY.

The other metros where child care costs are at least double the average rent are Springfield (105.4%) and Syracuse, N.Y. (100.0%). When we conducted this study last year, Springfield ranked first, with child care for two costing 135.7% more than rent. 

According to Schulz, it can be difficult to navigate these high costs without cutting back on necessities. 

“Knocking down your debt to free up more funds to put toward child care could be massive,” he says. “A 0% balance transfer credit card can be about your best weapon in the battle against credit card debt because it can dramatically reduce the amount of interest you pay on the debt. Consolidating your debts with a personal loan can help, too. You can even call your card issuer and ask for a lower interest rate. It works far more often than you’d imagine.”

Child care is cheaper than rent in some costly metros

Conversely, child care costs for two kids are less expensive than rent in 15 metros. Notably, California and Florida metros occupy the bottom 10 spots. 

San Jose leads here, with rent costing $3,483 and child care costing $2,146 — meaning child care costs 38.4% less than rent. San Francisco (37.6%) and San Diego (29.4%) rank second and third, respectively.

The metros where infant/4-year-old care costs the least compared to rent are San Jose, San Francisco and San Diego, CA.

In total, six of the bottom 10 metros are in California, with Oxnard, Los Angeles and Sacramento joining those mentioned above. The remaining four are in Florida: Miami, Orlando, Cape Coral and Tampa.

Full rankings: Metros where infant and 4-year-old care costs most/least compared to rent 

RankMetroAvg. monthly child care cost for 2 kidsAvg. monthly 2-bedroom rent% difference$ difference
1Omaha, NE$2,891$1,368111.3%$1,523
2Milwaukee, WI$2,822$1,338110.9%$1,484
3Buffalo, NY$2,761$1,343105.6%$1,418
4Springfield, MA$3,562$1,734105.4%$1,828
5Syracuse, NY$2,784$1,392100.0%$1,392
6Toledo, OH$2,094$1,07694.6%$1,018
7Spokane, WA$2,967$1,53193.8%$1,436
8Minneapolis, MN$3,199$1,70987.2%$1,490
9Wichita, KS$2,020$1,09983.8%$921
10Rochester, NY$2,857$1,57381.6%$1,284
11Baltimore, MD$3,368$1,85781.4%$1,511
12Chicago, IL$3,203$1,78179.8%$1,422
13Worcester, MA$3,692$2,05679.6%$1,636
14Washington, DC$3,854$2,25371.1%$1,601
15Akron, OH$2,151$1,26869.6%$883
16Scranton, PA$2,112$1,25268.7%$860
17Cleveland, OH$2,156$1,27968.6%$877
18Indianapolis, IN$2,480$1,47368.4%$1,007
19Dayton, OH$2,139$1,27368.0%$866
20Albany, NY$2,855$1,70267.7%$1,153
20St. Louis, MO$2,042$1,21867.7%$824
22Madison, WI$2,830$1,69467.1%$1,136
23Pittsburgh, PA$2,146$1,29965.2%$847
24Colorado Springs, CO$2,865$1,73565.1%$1,130
25Poughkeepsie, NY$3,210$1,97962.2%$1,231
26Cincinnati, OH$2,181$1,35361.2%$828
27Louisville, KY$2,031$1,27259.7%$759
28Detroit, MI$2,229$1,41158.0%$818
29Memphis, TN$1,995$1,27456.6%$721
30Tucson, AZ$2,150$1,40253.4%$748
31Columbus, OH$2,190$1,43053.1%$760
32Providence, RI$2,612$1,72951.1%$883
33Des Moines, IA$1,983$1,31850.5%$665
34Richmond, VA$2,487$1,65550.3%$832
35Winston-Salem, NC$1,841$1,23249.4%$609
36Hartford, CT$2,785$1,86549.3%$920
37Denver, CO$3,102$2,08948.5%$1,013
38Harrisburg, PA$2,193$1,49346.9%$700
39Kansas City, MO$1,978$1,35845.7%$620
40McAllen, TX$1,538$1,06045.1%$478
41Portland, OR$2,779$1,92244.6%$857
42Virginia Beach, VA$2,471$1,71344.2%$758
43New Haven, CT$2,811$1,96942.8%$842
44Grand Rapids, MI$2,165$1,53141.4%$634
45Greensboro, NC$1,867$1,33040.4%$537
46Tulsa, OK$1,708$1,21740.3%$491
47Oklahoma City, OK$1,737$1,24439.6%$493
48Boston, MA$4,038$2,94137.3%$1,097
49Provo, UT$2,003$1,46037.2%$543
49Baton Rouge, LA$1,652$1,20437.2%$448
51Allentown, PA$2,236$1,63436.8%$602
52Knoxville, TN$2,003$1,47136.2%$532
52El Paso, TX$1,622$1,19136.2%$431
54Albuquerque, NM$1,972$1,46434.7%$508
55Seattle, WA$3,318$2,50132.7%$817
56Columbia, SC$1,676$1,27631.3%$400
57Bakersfield, CA$1,944$1,48331.1%$461
58Little Rock, AR$1,502$1,14731.0%$355
59Phoenix, AZ$2,404$1,83930.7%$565
60Philadelphia, PA$2,352$1,81029.9%$542
61Augusta, GA$1,619$1,26128.4%$358
62Greenville, SC$1,673$1,33924.9%$334
63New Orleans, LA$1,658$1,33124.6%$327
64Ogden, UT$2,006$1,61424.3%$392
65Honolulu, HI$3,223$2,64222.0%$581
66Nashville, TN$2,103$1,73021.6%$373
67Fresno, CA$1,977$1,66418.8%$313
68San Antonio, TX$1,684$1,42618.1%$258
69Stockton, CA$2,043$1,74217.3%$301
70Salt Lake City, UT$2,033$1,74716.4%$286
71Charlotte, NC$1,953$1,68615.8%$267
72Bridgeport, CT$2,892$2,51115.2%$381
73Birmingham, AL$1,454$1,26614.8%$188
74Houston, TX$1,801$1,57314.5%$228
75Lakeland, FL$1,708$1,49714.1%$211
76Durham, NC$1,946$1,71113.7%$235
77New York, NY$3,290$2,91013.1%$380
78Raleigh, NC$1,973$1,75012.7%$223
79Las Vegas, NV$1,947$1,73512.2%$212
80Jacksonville, FL$1,741$1,6585.0%$83
81Jackson, MS$1,341$1,2884.1%$53
82Palm Bay, FL$1,769$1,7093.5%$60
83Deltona, FL$1,732$1,7001.9%$32
83Boise, ID$1,687$1,6551.9%$32
85Charleston, SC$1,815$1,7871.6%$28
86Atlanta, GA$1,795$1,820-1.4%-$25
87Dallas, TX$1,856$1,931-3.9%-$75
88Austin, TX$1,754$1,852-5.3%-$98
89Riverside, CA$2,052$2,201-6.8%-$149
90North Port, FL$1,818$1,958-7.2%-$140
91Sacramento, CA$2,070$2,255-8.2%-$185
91Tampa, FL$1,815$1,977-8.2%-$162
93Cape Coral, FL$1,799$1,961-8.3%-$162
94Orlando, FL$1,774$1,972-10.0%-$198
95Los Angeles, CA$2,195$2,601-15.6%-$406
96Miami, FL$1,962$2,436-19.5%-$474
97Oxnard, CA$2,158$2,693-19.9%-$535
98San Diego, CA$2,120$3,001-29.4%-$881
99San Francisco, CA$2,248$3,604-37.6%-$1,356
100San Jose, CA$2,146$3,483-38.4%-$1,337
Source: LendingTree analysis of Child Care Aware of America and U.S. HUD data.

Raising a child in major metro: Top expert tips

Being a parent who rents in a large metro is understandably tough, but you don’t have to drown in debt to make it work. We offer the following advice:

  • Seek financial help from the government and other organizations. “For those struggling the most with child care, help is available,” Schulz says. “Seek local, state and federal government agencies geared toward helping financially strapped parents, but also consider religious organizations and other nonprofits. It can be tough to swallow your pride to reach out for help, but you can do it if it’s important enough to your family.”
  • Consider a personal loan to help in a pinch. “Taking on extra debt may seem like the last thing to do when you’re struggling with child care costs, but it may be helpful,” he says. “That’s especially true if you expect your financial hardship to be temporary, due to a job loss, medical emergency or unforeseen event. A personal loan can help make things easier. You can even use one to consolidate loans, ideally reducing your interest rates. Just make sure you shop around. Loan offers can vary widely by lender, but you won’t be able to see that unless you take the time to comparison shop.”
  • Remember your end goal. “High rent and child care costs create massive challenges for most young families,” he says. “However, to the degree possible, it’s important to not fully ignore long-term goals like retirement, emergency funds and college savings. That’s because the most powerful financial asset anyone has is time. The earlier you build the habit of saving and investing, the better you’ll be in the long run. Even if that savings is just a few dollars in each paycheck, the long-term returns can be massive when done consistently.”

Methodology

LendingTree researchers used 2024 Child Care Aware of America data to calculate average full-time center-based child care costs for one infant and two kids (an infant and a 4-year-old) in the 100 largest U.S. metros.

Researchers determined child care costs in the 100 metros by adjusting state costs to the 2023 metropolitan area regional price parity (RPP) for all items via the U.S. Bureau of Economic Analysis (BEA). This adjustment was done using the state RPP as the base for our calculation.

Then, child care costs were compared to the cost of renting a two-bedroom housing unit in each metro based on fiscal-year 2026 Fair Market Rents (FMRs) data via the U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development (HUD). We also calculated two-bedroom rent and child care averages across the 100 metros.

FMRs are estimates of the amount required to cover gross rents (rent and utility expenses) for 40% of the rental housing units in a given area. These estimates are crucial for several HUD programs, including setting the maximum amount covered by Housing Choice Vouchers.

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